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The Move East
I left Seattle after 13 years to be with Dan in California. A year later and we're moving 3,000 miles away - to New Jersey. I wasn't expecting this at all when I moved, but Dan's a great guy and there are a lot of things going for the East Coast (despite what most of my friends tell me) so it was with a glad heart that I started making the plans to start over on the "other coast".

August 20-31, 2009
Packing, moving and unpacking

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Packing

We were fortunate that Dan's company (the reason for the move in the first place) was providing people to come and pack up our stuff, toss it into a truck and then, a week later, unload it into our new house. This meant that everytime someone asked me "Are you all packed?" I just smiled and said "No". I've moved plenty of times in my life but this was the first time it would be "effortless" for me. The movers showed up on Thursday the 20th and put everything into boxes. Then they came back the next day and put all of the boxes into the truck. This last step also included our two cars and three motorcycles. What we were left with at the end of the day were three cats, an inflatable mattress and a couple of folding lawn chairs in an otherwise empty apartment. We had made previous plans to flee the empty apartment for a weekend in San Francisco, and then on Monday we'd fly to LA to pick up our RV. Why an RV? And why LA? Well, the RV made sense in the transportation of the three cats and besides, it would be fun to drive across the country (again), but this time in five days instead of 42 hours. And LA - because it was where the extraodinarily good deal was located on a one-way rental. We saved so much money by flying down to get it that it more than paid for the cost of the plane tickets and the gas to get back to Mountain View. So Monday morning we got a ride from a friend to the airport, flew to Long Beach where other friends of ours picked us up to have lunch and then dropped us off at the RV rental place. Eventually Dan and I were settled into our new "mobile home" for the next week and driving north. Tuesday morning we put the cats into the RV, tucked in a few more things that the movers hadn't/wouldn't take and we were off! It wasn't to be an exciting trip. The idea was to take I-40 across the southern states, see something we hadn't seen before (the southeast), visit my sister in Tennessee and then be in our driveway on Sunday. No sightseeing allowed, other than what we saw from the RV. It was time to go "home".

The living room mess
Balcony stuff
Bedroom in mid-pack
Ha - I don't have to pack the wine!!!
Eh gads - what a mess
The futon disassembled and boxes stacked
On Friday they guys came back and hauled everything out to the truck. I felt pretty useless, as I had to be there for questions (like the previous day), but to just sit and not help - it was sort of awkward. So I wandered around and tried to stay out of the way. The cats were sequestered in the (one) bathroom, which made for excitement whenever one of the movers had to go in there. As one guy put it: "I've never had so many eyes watch me before"
Boxes on their way to the truck
Tom fitting everything in securely
Tom pushing the BMW into the truck
BMW and KLR, nose to tail for the trip
More stuff
Tom prepares for the cars
One bug, loaded!
The Honda, with room to spare
Last but not least, Dan's KLR gets pushed aboard
Not much left
Time to clean
The air mattress - it leaked

Day 1

We left around 10am, the cats set in their own kennels and Dan and I taking turns at the wheel. The RV was rediclously easy to drive, smaller than most SUVs on the road. The cats were quiet, the traffic light and once we were on 99 south, the pace was quick. We were backtracking, heading right back down towards LA, but this was only so we could avoid traffic and construction on I-80 over to Tahoe, as well as giving us the most direct route to my sister's house in Tennessee, the only stop we were committed to for the entire trip. Eastward, Ho!

We were hoping to stop in Lake Havasu for the night, at a nice state park near the London Bridge. But for whatever reason, my time/distance estimates were grossly exaggerated and it was getting later sooner than expected. We decided to expend the 20 minutes or so it would take to go south to the park and instead keep going east. We were going to hit up a KOA, but figured "why waste the money?" and just camped out at a rest stop. The trucks never stopped blowing by and it was hot inside the RV. Probably not the best night's sleep I'd had in a while.

Our cute little 19' RV!
The cats are set up for the trip
A couple of plants, some food and water and a box - what else is there?
Driving Miss Daisy
Windmills in eastern California
Moving like pinwheels in the breeze
Miss Daisy Driving
Fun in Mojave - trucks everywhere!
Heading into Arizona
The evening sun casting a great light
Mojave mountains
Clear views in eastern California
Pookie decides to come out for a bit

Day 2

We woke up early (before the sun!) and were on the road in no time flat. We had miles to cover!

Sunrise at the Arizona rest stop
No, I have no idea
Dawn's light as we head east
The road cut
Becca comes out to enjoy the ride
Do you think the marketers knew what they were doing?
Adobe (?) building
We didn't stop
No idea for this one, either
Stopping for lunch - what's that on the dash?
Why, it's Dan of course!
Vestiges of Route 66
More mud/brick buildings
Nice scenery in Arizona
Many engines on a very long train
Arizona
Yep, still Arizona
More Arizona
Fancy overpasses in Alburquerque
Large person on a truck - oh my!
Pookie decides Arizona is boring
Rumor has it, "Stuckey's" was my first word
Clouds!
The RV takes a bit more gas than the KLR
These things hit the windshield with a very loud "smack!"

Day 3

This time we spent the night in a different rest area, in Texas. The trucks were still noisy but the weather was a lot cooler. I was amazed at how clear the stars were and how vivid the Milky Way shone in the night sky. There's not a lot to see along I-40. It is indeed "the trucker's route" and we saw many of them along the way. The scenery is rather unobtrusive and one must look for items of interest.

At one point I had passed someone and before I could move back into the right lane, a car pulled up on my right and passed me. I could see another car waiting behind me to pass, so as soon as the actively passing car was past my bumper (and not much past!) I pulled over to the right lane, so that the car behind me wouldn't get the same idea. Move completed, I settled in with the cruise control set at, well, about 3mph over the limit, and sat back for the drive. That's when I noticed the red/blue flashing lights behind me. I was surprised when he followed me off to the shoulder of the highway - what could he want with me? It turns out he was "concerned" about my pass and wanted to make sure that I knew what I was doing. I suppose "RENTAL RV!" plastered all over the side of the vehicle would allow someone to suspect that the driver doesn't have a clue. I know that's what I think when I see them on the road. Doing his duty, the officer asked to see my driver's license and the RV paperwork. All well and good, except that I can't find my wallet. Yikes! The officer asks me to step outside, but he just reviews the rental contract with me and tells me to be safe. I get back in the RV, where Dan has been looking but to no avail. I figure that it must have fallen out of my pocket at the truck stop. I call and cancel the credit cards and then we're on our way. The truck stop was some 3 hours behind us - the odds of us finding anything if we did go back were slim to none.

That night, we decided that enough time had passed inside the confines of our RV that we needed a proper campground. We found an ok one about a quarter of the way across Arkansas, complete with hot showers and internet. We could have lived here! Well, not really. We could still hear the trucks on the nearby interstate, which was a real disappointment to us. But we could plug in the RV and run the air conditioning, which was noisy but comfortable. And while settling in for the evening I had a thought: what if my wallet fell out at the Pizza Hut we stopped in back in Oklahoma? I grabbed the laptop, did a search for Pizza Huts in El Reno, OK and found the one. I gave them a call and, lo and behold, they had my wallet. The manager reviewed the contents with me (everything was there) and agreed to mail it to my new address in New Jersey. Wooo hooo! Life just got easier again!

Parked near us was a large converted van, driven by a woman who was on her way home to North Carolina after visiting the San Francisco area. She had a big fuzzy dog and Dan went over to play with him for a bit while I popped into the shower. She said that she was disappointed in this KOA and that it was the worse one she'd stayed at. What did we know? It was only our first time to stop somewhere other than a rest area.

Texas!
Everything's big in Texas!
Dan uses hockey tape to keep the GPS from falling over
Oklahoma!
There's wind in Oklahoma!
Pookie experiences a fierce fascination with Oklahoma
Lots of machinery, very little construction
Arkansas!
It was a nice husband/wife team moving army vehicles
VW engine and a big trike - why not just drive a car at that point?
Proud to not protect her noggin
Ah - home sweet home

Day 4

Now we were getting somewhere new! Dan had never been this far southeast and I hadn't be on I-40 in this part of the country. It wasn't a long ride in to Franklin , TN where my sister Linda lives. We arrived there in the early evening and had a wonderful dinner with her and her husband Steve. We spent the evening shooting the breeze and watching a mindless flick. It felt really good to be in a real bed that night.

What a way to start the day!
Nice field designs in Arkansas
More field designs
Here comes Memphis, Tennessee!
Crossing the Mississippi into Memphis
Visiting my sister in Tennessee

Day 5

Two more days. We probably could have squished the 15 hours left into one long day, but what was the point? We still had a leaky air mattress and no other furniture. So east/northeast/north we plowed on, heading eternally through verdent rolling hills. That night we stopped at another KOA, this one well away from the highway and very peaceful. But unlike the other KOA, this one charged for every little thing, so our amenities were limited (ie, we only had an hour of internet). Instead, we walked around the campground and looked forward to the impending rain. Finally - rain!

Saying good bye to Linda and Steve
Ha! It wasn't me this time!
Ahh - the old painted barns of yesteryear
Many, many such fields of vines along the way
TVA's Kingston coal plant
Tennessee? Virginia? I can't remember
Virginia, I'm sure!
More Virginia

Day 6

This would be it! We were in Virginia already and according to the maps I'd brought with us, we just had a few more (very small) states to cross before we'd be in New Jersey. And small states they were. I barely had time to put my camera down before we had moved from one to the other.

Yay!
And a couple of miles later...
Susquehanna River
Fun with semis!
"State of Independence" - I never heard that one before!
Pennsylvania farms are the best
Imagine the history in those bricks!
More PA farms
One more PA farm!
The home stretch!
Home!

Unloading

We arrived at the house mid-afternoon on Sunday and the movers came around 11 Monday morning. We were without our stuff for an amazingly short period of time. The same driver was there (Tom), but he had two local guys to help him unload the truck. They worked quickly and efficiently, joking around with each other as they pulled box after box out of the truck. I stood by to coach them on destinations of some of the stuff. Garage, basement, living room, dining room, I-don't-know... everything went somewhere.

Now that's a big truck!
Pulling out the Honda
Here comes the bug!
Dan - where's your gear?
Ah - the garage. It looks so empty!
Ah, the BMW is home
Action shot of a mover
The formerly empty living room
More stuff
Crowding the dining room

Unpacking

And now the tedious part came. I don't even mind packing as much as I mind unpacking. And the way that things were packed! I had more paper wrapped around items than I had items! But nothing had broken and I guess that was the point. First things first, we checked out the house. The attic was bigger than we remembered it. The paint on the walls was uglier than the pictures reminded us. The smell of smoke (The previous owner smoked. A lot. With the windows shut) was more prevalent than I had realized. We had our work cut out for us. We started by painting the master bedroom and living room. Working around unopened boxes, we visited the big box stores and bought supplies and got started.

Dan discovers the joy of the huge attic
Looking to the right of the previous shot
Preparing the master bedroom for painting
Icky, sickly green paint
No, there's no sign of a smoker living here
Dan gets to work!
Generic, useless shot of the bedroom
Dan tries out the new edger

While Dan painted, I unpacked. Box after box, I unwrapped things and wondered where the heck I'd put them. The new kitchen was smaller than the old kitchen and there wasn't a lot of space. But with the aid of a pantry in the hall and a large, unused basement, I found a place for everything.

During the painting/unpacking process, we also cleaned. The smoke residue was everywhere. We cleaned light fixtures, blinds, walls, cupboards, the lights themselves... everything. And it still smells a little stale when the windows have been closed. Sigh.

Meanwhile, I have boxes of kitchenware to unpack
And a lot less storage than we had in Mountain View
Unclean, clean
Left: This is your lung on cigarettes (air conditioner filter)
Dans cuts the grass with our new mower
The boys, taking it easy in the living room
Priming the living room
Ah - no more orange ruffy
New plugs and switches, too
Becca and Pookie are exhausted from watching us work
Painting is just about done!
Relaxing in the new living room (this color is truer than the other picture)
Becca still loves me
Pookie, happy to have a non-moving home again

The BBQ

Now that we had both the main and guest bedrooms unpacked, the living room was liveable and the kitchen was serviceable, it was time for company! My friend Mark came down from Conneticut and Dan's friend Aaron came down from Rhode Island. The four of us sat out back while Dan hooked up the grill and then we took a drive to the Eagle Rock Reservation overlook. It was a beautiful day and we spent a while up there, looking at the view of New York City.

Mark had to leave on Saturday, but Aaron stayed with us until Monday. The three of us took the bus into the city and wandered around the streets and had amazingly good food before coming back.

I think that this will be a very good place to live.

Dan breaks out the grill!
Aaron - playing his part for "Weekend at Bernie's"
How many scientists does it take to grill brats?
Dan, looking extremely bored
A big driveway!
Dan points out something to Aaron
A hazy view of New York City
View of the viewpoint
I am here